HEART AND SOUL FOR FRIENDSHIP!!!:)

Hmm.. frnz are.. a very special part of our lives.. we laugh ‘n’ cry with/for them, share the deepest of our secrets , make the weirdest name possible for the group, do silly things with them without getting conscious and of course, do not fake when together... however, if you ask me, the best part of having frnds is that even when you are stuck up in a mess or commit a huge crime , you can go up to ur frnd, make an innocent puppy like face (that’s important, you see :)) , confide to them and still expect your frnd to hug you tightly and say, “ don’t worry.. I am there”.. but.. how do we ultimately decide on which ppl to rely on and call “frnz”..

I think it’s more of a co-incidence or what we call in frndship lingo as “clicking” which really matters.. it’s said old is gold..and one should always preserve the old frnship.. but how many of us feel sad, watching a group of frnz enjoying in front of you and you remembering the past which you spent with your old frnds, and feeling the pain bcuz you can’t have that time back .. many of us.. rite?? 90% of us have lost the touch with the past frnz.. and even if we are in touch, the intensity of loving them and hoping to be loved back has decreased.. speaking about me.. till date, I have had around 15 best frnds.. and each time I thought that this best frnd is better than the previous and the best frnd bonding is ever lasting ( which never proved so, as of now..).. and now ultimately.. I hv stoppd making best frnds…hihi.. one thing I’ve realizd from past is that..some of my ex-best frnz don’t mean the same to me..some times it was my mistake and some times theirs.. we nevr cleard it out of sheer ego and the fear of being "chaep"..ultimately.. our care and feelings for each othr have changed..and many of you will agree, that seeing the old relations change hurt the most…

I have had fights with my frnz for silliest of the reason.. like.. sharing the same crush ( that was so common ).. ,not calling them, not giving enuf attention, not doing what your frnd wantd u to do.. bt the best one was.. when I used to score higher marks than my best friend “kartika”..she used to literally plead in front on me not to disclose my marks in front of her parents and as usual.. the first thing after getting my score sheet was to go to her house and tell my original marks.. hihii..it used to be mean, but I usd to enjoy the look on her face and she still shouts on me for that..hihii :)…

One of the best part of frnship is when you count back on them in case of rarest of the rare problem you face.. I am reminiscised of an incident that happnd few years back.. suddenly at around 2 a.m, I got a call from my frnd’s mom.. and I vaguely remember her questions.. was I talking to my frnd so late? What were we talking about? Who called? Do my parents know about it? And I in a sleepy trance, dint evn know what to say.. I somehow realizd that my frnd must be talking to her bf and on being caught by her mum, would have told her that shez talking to me. I was really furious with her the following day.. but this is what are frnds supposed to be!! THROWING THEIR FRNZ IN TROUBLE IN ORDER TO SAVE THEMSELVES…..huhhh…

Having true frnds is like wow!! True frnz are like.. You trust them the most.. You can call them at any hour of the day and say whtevr u want to irrespective of how much they are getting bored..You blackmail them the most.. You pull their leg the most.. You are possessive for them the most.. You even fight with your parents..to talk to them.. to meet them.. bt I think it’s a part of life!! And if you have a set of true frnz who really understand you… Life is all about enjoying to the core..

A best friend of mine once said, ” every once in a while people step up.. they rise above themselves.. sometimes they surprise you.. and sometimes they fall short.. life is funny sometimes.. it can push pretty hard.. but if you look close enough, you find hope in the words of your frnz..if you’re lucky , n if you are the luckiest person on this planet, the person you truly call your frnd, would decide to call you the same throughout their life..”..
so.. what do you think about it?? :)