a conversation with a male friend while on my way back home.... let the friend be named as "x".

me- hey.. tell me one thing..is it true that the guys start losing interest gradually in a relationship?

x ( laughing)- i'll tell you an incident of mine.. if a girl in the starting itself shows interest in me, I don't feel like talking to her and I backout.. on the contrary, if a girl twists and turns the things.. and is a little hard to get, i somehow get attracted to her..

me- lol.. how typical..

x- no seriously man.. this is what a normal guy physcology is.. and this is 100 percent true.. we like running after things which are not that easy to get...

me- so doesnt a person's nature or care etc etc matter.. doesnt the love and care she showers matter.. all that matters is how hard she is to get..??

x- well... all depends on the upbringing.. the simple thing in clear cut words is.. that a guy would always want to be with the person who is caring and loving... but if given an opportunity to wander off temporarily, he would definitely do that.. but hey, why you asking all this?

me- generally.. just trying to understand a guy mentality.. lol.. as if i didnt knew.. but just wanted to know that do ALL guys think this way..

x- so, whats the conclusion?? (laughing)

me- being extra sweet is of no use.. if you want a guy to be hooked onto you, tactics are a must must....

x- haww... how can you use tactics if you love someone?? (pokingly)

me- shut up.. i love someone is a different thing.. but making a guy realize that he loves me is an entirely different thing..and for which you have to somehow be extra naughty at times.. ;)

x- lol.. that's why i say you are a typical delhite.. lol.. but please dont share your tactic stuff with my girlfriend.. cuz she is already one step ahead of you..

me- you guys deserve that.. lol..

Funny how we try to move on and at the same time, hold on.

hmm... strange controversial statement, yet so true.. sometimes we don't even realize that is the thing which we are doing the one we actually want.. and the entire thing revolves around one thing.. WHAT DO WE WANT!!!... we desire to do something different, a change which we feel will be a lot better than the present situation.. yet, we hold on.. simple reason, which is applicable to most of the situations.. we are so much attached or used to the present scenario that going out of the comfort zone gives us pangs.. wel.. from my perception, this is a normal human behaviour.. but iv lately realized one thing.. if ever, you are confused in your life.. just take a step back.. dont put efforts.. dont do anything.. just take a step back and see things from a broader picture.. you'll eventually realize what you want and what you should do.. because we analyze the situations best when we see it from a third person's view point.. so, in any scenario.. maybe when you are too messed up with things.. just leave the situation as it is... stop using your brains temporarily.. take a step back... let the things come to you..and they will surely.. because when you are too much involved in a situation, sometimes you are a better judge when you walk away from it.. the more you run after things, the more they'll run away from you.. just go with flow.. eventually, all the pieces would fall in their perfect place...